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James · 17th September 2006, 07:26 PM

hiya I'm currently aged 15, nearly 16 but when i was younger and i was 11 something embarrising happened to mi. I was playing football (soccer) with a few younger lads round the back of my house, I slid in and made a challenge on one of them, he went to ground and got a bit upset, it probably was a foul but i wasnt intending to hurt him. This younger boy (2 years younger than me) stoped playing and was obvioulsy in a bit of a sulk, next thing i know he is phoning his older brother to come down to get me because apparently I 'deliberatley tried to hurt him'. His brother is 2 years older than me and is a local tough guy. Hes a chav, big stronger than me, and i was really scared. So this brother came down and started shouting and threatening me, i have to say i was terrified, in the end he just said 2i'll leave u alone if u kiss my brothers feet" I was terrified so yes, i did it

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That was the end of the matter until recently. Now this younger brother hangs round near my house in a big gang, and everytime they see me, they always shout comments usually along the lines of 'kiss my feet' (yes this is 4years on). I usually just ignore them, but i'm embarressed about what i did, and i'd be lying if i said it didnt get to me. I obviously cant shout back or abuse him back as he has this older brother, but im nt a violent or abusive person anyway. I'm worried if im out my freinds or potential girlfriends and they make these comments that the story could spread and i may be a laughing stock.

Thanks for reading, please dont laugh coz this is a sensitive issue for me, i was just wondering if anyone could give some advice on what to do or how to deal with it, thanks.

rikk22 · 17th September 2006, 10:17 PM

thats not laughable at all. its a pity that what you seem to have refered as friends can act this way. I dont wana be judgemental towards anyone but from what you said they are a bunch of chav-retards. yet again another reason to hate most, if not ALL chavs. Death to all of them!

Jellybean · 17th September 2006, 11:01 PM

there's isn't really much you can do. if you want to make sure there are no rumours or anything though it would probably be a good idea to tell your friends or potential girlfriends about what happened. and if they're real friends they won't tell anyone or pick on you for it.
hope i helped

nicky · 1st October 2006, 07:39 PM

ugh chavs..first of all i'd like to say i agree with rikkle..
then id like to say i also agree with mel..i think you should tell the story to the ones you consider rather more sensitive..and if theydont laugh at u/spread the story around, that means they are good,lifelong friends. so basically im agreeing with the two people who've posted so far but just wanted to say it =)
good luck with your problem.