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7th February 2007, 05:52 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
lol yes, to a degree. but letting them sleep with other people would most likely make you unhappy. and it would seem as though they don't love you back, what's the point in being with someone that is going to break your heart?
also, love is something undescribable. i don't think anyone really knows what it is, but you know when you love someone... "love is not like anything, expecially a f***ing knife" that doesn't really make a whole lot of sense but oh well lol lyrics 
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7th February 2007, 04:26 PM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
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what's love? if you love someone doesn't that imply that you want to see them happy? if sleeping with other people makes your partner happy, why not let them sleep with other people? why do you need exclusivity?
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some people are comfortable with their partners doing that, it's a personal decision but i for one wouldnt feel comfortable with my partner doing that
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8th February 2007, 08:03 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
Very vague responces, simply saying some people will do it but you won't doesn't answer the question I'm asking, why do you need exclusive rights to your partners body? why would it make you unhappy to see them happy? sexual desire is human nature, regardless of whether you're in a relationship or not, why deny human nature?
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8th February 2007, 10:47 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
ok i will be more specific, i wouldn't like my partner to have eg. sex with someone else because then there is always a chance that they will like them better then me and then leave me. i know people always say well if you really love them and it makes them happy to leave you then whatever but in real life however you dont want to let them go. so thats why people want exculsive rights, to keep things safe.
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9th February 2007, 06:18 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
so you're basically just saying that you're insecure.
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9th February 2007, 10:58 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
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so you're basically just saying that you're insecure.
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whats with all the attacks on everything I say? Many people are insecure in relationships because the person you are in a relationship with has the power to hurt you and yes I am insecure, I have been cheated on before and do you know what? It damn hurts. Besides I have answered your question why do people need exclusivity, if your fine with your partner having sex with someone else then fine, thats your choice.
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12th February 2007, 12:21 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
No way would I forgive a cheater. Because I know that if u let them get away with it one time there going to think they can get away with it again.
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12th February 2007, 05:29 AM
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whats with all the attacks on everything I say? Many people are insecure in relationships because the person you are in a relationship with has the power to hurt you and yes I am insecure, I have been cheated on before and do you know what? It damn hurts. Besides I have answered your question why do people need exclusivity, if your fine with your partner having sex with someone else then fine, thats your choice.
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he has a tendency to attack everything everyone says. don't worry about it.
and you *points at brother* don't make trouble! i'm watching you..
and yes, it is all very complicated...relationships and such.
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12th February 2007, 06:10 AM
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Re: Do you forgive a Cheater?
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Hmm, I dunno. The more harder breaking up is the more harder it is to move on. I say this from experience. I tend to think the longer you like them the harder it gets! 
I do believe in second chances but any more than that will be a bit hard to cope with. It could be also your fault also, are you not giving your partner enough attension? whatever the case it takes two to tango. A relationship lasts as long as you keep the spark alive  |
 Sure. It is hard to break up. If it happens more than once or twice you automatically know that your relationship is in the toilet. It tends to fall under what the circumstances are, yes. Again though, under no circumstances are you to forgive them back. You know what I'm saying? It's like, cheaters are bad. Sometimes it relates to confusion. Or maybe you don't think it will last.  and sorry to say, you can't move on in life if you're stuck in the past. Because if you're in the past, you will not realize what is going on in the present and screwing up your future. If you are stuck in the past thinking about that loser you never forgave (forgived? I don't know), you will never realize the passion in the relationship you're in now and might cheat yourself. What comes around,  DEFINATLEY  comes around.
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12th February 2007, 07:57 AM
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whats with all the attacks on everything I say?
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I'm no trying to attack you, i'm just asking questions and making statements, if you take it in negative light that's your own fault.
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