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me4froggy2 · 16th March 2007, 03:10 AM

Does ANYONE need ADVICE about ANYTHING?

I can help. I can give advice about anything. Talk to me. Go:

prieraceae · 16th March 2007, 02:30 PM

Oh wise me4froggy2,

How does one deal with chronic depression?

me4froggy2 · 17th March 2007, 08:38 PM

I like that title. From now on I am only known as "Oh wise me4froggy2,"

"How does one deal with chronic depression?"

Different people deal with depression differently. From what I know about you, you've tried many, many drugs, love poetry, and hate alot of things. I think that your depression comes from the drugs you take/have taken. In this case, I'm not telling you to stop, but your body is not being able to cope with stress and dosage. You should probably find the insulator of your stress (Work, School, Social Life, etc.) and take a load off for a while, as for your drugs. If you like poetry you should probably use that as a stress reliever. Do not use it so much to where you cannot think of a poem because that brings stress back. In fact, if you're that kind of person, who can't wait and is not patient, you should just rest of try something you like doing, like poetry. Lastly, try not to think of the things you hate, if you can't help it visit a phsyc, or whatev.

Hope that helps. I have alot more to say if you need more, just ask.

prieraceae · 18th March 2007, 01:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by me4froggy2

I think that your depression comes from the drugs you take/have taken. In this case, I'm not telling you to stop, but your body is not being able to cope with stress and dosage.

Drugs aren't the cause of my depression that's for sure, I took (woo! 3 weeks clean) the drugs to escape from my depression. I'm pretty sure it stems from having avoidant personality disorder. This is where the viscious cycley begins, I have depression because of APD, but because of my depression i have no motivation to fix the APD. what to do, what to do?

me4froggy2 · 18th March 2007, 07:46 PM

You can get rid of APD easily. APD pretty much means you aren't putting enough forward into life. Meaning your personality does not appeal to yourself.

To get rid of APD you need to look into things you like and come back to Earth. Realize even if you don't love something that it doesn't have to be hated.

'You understand what I'm saying?

Jellybean · 31st March 2007, 01:41 PM

The causes of depression are at present unknown and no single cause has been identified.

talking to a psychologist will help...
and trust me, telling someone (with depression) what they should do will not help.

lost_girl1 · 19th May 2007, 04:14 PM

i need some advice. I know i'm fat and i want to do comething about it, change my life but i cant lose weight because my family say im to skinny already. Everytime i go on a new diet they shout and take to to see a dietition who doesnt help because i dont have a problem. I just want to be happy and everyone is holding me back! What can i do ?

Punk_Scene · 19th May 2007, 07:53 PM

Go on the diet anyway. Just don't let them know. Keep yourself at a limit. Eat ONLY breakfast, lunch, dinner, and one snack. The snack has to be a fruit or vegitable, otherwise something under 100 calories. Exorcise alot, and don't weigh in, whatever you do...Don't weigh in.

lost_girl1 · 20th May 2007, 03:21 PM

i cant go on a diet without them knowing because they watch everything i do. I'm a very active person, I do some form of sports everyday, and when i come back they force me to eat. Why shouldn't i weigh in ? I weigh myself everyday to see how i'm gettinon weight wise. Is that a bad thing ?

Punk_Scene · 24th October 2007, 03:04 AM

Well, no...But it can cause trouble. It might lower your spirits. And if you stop weighing in, they might just forget about the whole thing and leave you alone. If not, talk it out. If they don't listen, find other ways of notifying them. If that doesn't work, what does it matter if you're fat and ugly? That may be to yourself, but if other people think otherwise, that's okay, right?